Daphne Bach Greer

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Daphne is a mother of five with one precious daughter in heaven, whose loss transformed her life’s trajectory in profound ways. After leaving behind a long career in criminal justice, she discovered a new calling in helping others navigate the complex landscape of grief through faith and hope. As an author, business owner, and co-founder of a nonprofit organization established in memory of her daughter, Daphne has dedicated her life to being “a light in the darkness” for bereaved hearts. Her writing focuses on finding the sweeter side of grief and illustrating how faith can transform and restore lives after devastating loss. When she’s not writing or supporting other grieving families, Daphne embraces the country lifestyle she loves, spending time with her family, dogs, hunting, hiking, and enjoying the outdoors. She has a particular fondness for chocolate and pomegranates, and finds so much peace in nature. Currently working on her next book a devotional for grieving moms, Daphne also shares insights and encouragement through her blog. Her message to fellow travelers on this difficult path is simple yet powerful: you are not alone. She walks alongside others in their grief, offering hope born from her own experience of loss and restoration.

Christmas Blessings

With Christmas right around the corner, today I’m sharing my favorite blessing that means so much to our family, especially my son.

In December 2008, five months after Lydia died, another amazing gift was found.  In the car, where we spent a lot of time, was where Lydia would compose her masterpieces, beautiful original one of a kind pieces of art. Randomly one rainy day in December, I put my hand in the back pocket of the seat, the one in front of where she used to sit.  Pulling out multiple hair accessories, ponytail holders, and nail polish caught me off guard, choking me up with a flood of tears.  Next, out came a neat white envelope and on the outside, carefully written, “To Hunter, From Lydia.”   Without hesitation, I gingerly opened up the top and peered inside.  My hands trembling with anticipation, I pulled out an incredible gift at just the right moment..

Christmas was just days away and I had found the perfect present for our son. Something to bring warmth to his tattered and torn heart, something that would provide him with the hope and love he so desperately needed.  It was a drawing of a Christmas tree, complete with ornaments and a star!

lydia tree hunter

Today, this picture sits in a frame next to his bed. Another priceless gift that will last a lifetime.  God is amazing!

 

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11 responses to “Christmas Blessings”

  1. Kate @ Did That Just Happen? Avatar
    Kate @ Did That Just Happen?

    How beautiful!! What an amazing gift!

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      Daphne

      Thanks Kate! We always got to keep our eyes open for those hidden treasures we may find at any moment!

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  2. Lisa Avatar
    Lisa

    Love this one

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      Daphne

      Thank you 🙂

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  3. Mary Avatar
    Mary

    Beautiful indeed!

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    1. Daphne Avatar
      Daphne

      Thank you Mary!

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  4. cperciaccanto Avatar
    cperciaccanto

    Tears… How beautiful. I think things like this pop up when we need them most. My mom died at 55 y.o.June 2008 and I missed her hugs so much. Several months later when finally going through her things, I came upon I card meant for a daughter ( me) but wasn’t filled out . The front spoke of loving cherished memories together and when I opened it , it said ” consider yourself hugged” . It felt like God knew I needed that!

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      Daphne

      Oh what a beautiful gift. So sorry to hear about your mother. However, what a wonderful blessing given to you at just the right moment. It’s those little things that keep us going. God is so good!

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  5. treats-and-travel Avatar
    treats-and-travel

    A lovely gift to treasure along with all the special memories. Been there, know what it feels like. So special …..

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      Daphne

      Thanks so much. I’m glad you are able to know the value of these amazing gifts..

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  6. Grace Grogan Avatar
    Grace Grogan

    What a precious story and gift. I’m glad Hunter keeps the beautiful picture Lydia drew for him in a frame at his bedside. A perfect remembrance that his sister loved and thought of him.

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